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ELEVATE YOUR VOICE

Uncategorized Oct 17, 2023

You’ve made the decision to step on stage. Congratulations! But now you must decide what to say and how to say it. There is almost always more than one way to say something. But how you say it can be the game-changer in any situation. 

When we get on stage or in front of a group, we often speak in the way we speak normally. And for some of you, timid and apologetic are the names of your speaking game. 

But you should not be apologetic when taking the stage. You should be able to step up there with confidence and grace, knowing that you deserve to be there and proving it to the crowd through the words you use.

Today I want to focus on a few key phrases you can change in your regular everyday speech so that when you take the stage, you will already feel more confident in your ability to speak with power and meaning! 

Five Ways to Elevate Your Voice

  1. Say 'Thank You' Instead of 'I'm Sorry': Next time you're late, instead of saying, "Sorry I'm late," try, "Thank you for your patience." This shifts the energy from negativity to gratitude. It also acknowledges that you know you were late and that you appreciate the patience of others without weakening you through an apologetic tone. Stuff happens, we are all late sometimes, that doesn’t mean we are any less deserving of the space we take and the words we have to share.
  2. Drop the 'I Think': Starting a sentence with "I think" weakens your message. You are not just thinking—you know. Speak with authority. 
  3. Eliminate the Word 'Just': Stop saying, "Just wanted to check in" or “I just wanted…” “Just” weakens your message and immediately acts as an apology. You are following up or checking in because you need information. Don’t apologize for it, own it.
  4. Cut the Fluff: Phrases like "For the record" or "Needless to say" dilute your message. Get to the point and make every word count. This is especially important when giving a speech or presentation! You are likely speaking because you are an expert, therefore there is no need to use fluffy phrases like this simply to take up space.
  5. Avoid 'Well,' 'So,' or 'Honestly': Starting a sentence with these words undermines your message. They may imply hesitation or uncertainty. Be direct and confident in your statements.

These simple tweaks to your regular speaking patterns can transform how people perceive you and how you perceive yourself. You're not only improving your communication; you are claiming your space and amplifying your voice.

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