We’ve all heard the saying, “Practice makes perfect.” But let’s be honest—perfection isn’t the goal. Confidence is. I prefer to say “Practice makes PERMANENT” because you will perform in the way that you rehearse!
Whether you’re preparing for a keynote speech, a business presentation, or simply sharing your story in front of an audience, how you practice will make all the difference. Great speakers don’t just wing it—they prepare with purpose.
The secret isn’t rehearsing until you’ve memorized every word—you are not a robot simply memorizing a sequence of words. The real secret to effective rehearsal is doing it in a way that builds familiarity with your content, confidence in your voice, flexibility and adaptation, and a strong connection with your audience.
In today’s article we will talk about how to practice effectively so that you walk onto any stage feeling confident, prepared, and powerful, not panicked.
It’s one thing to read through your speech in your mind. It’s another to hear yourself say it out loud.
Why it matters:
Try this: Stand up and practice your speech as if you were in front of an audience. Use your full voice, gestures, and natural movements. You’ll feel more comfortable and confident each time you do it because you will become more and more familiar with the action of speaking and hearing the words as you say them.
I know, I know—watching or listening to yourself can feel cringeworthy. But trust me, it’s worth it! You might prefer stepping on Legos barefoot to hearing your own voice, but this is one of the best ways to get used to speaking and hearing what you say. It will also help you learn to love the sound of your voice…because if you hate your voice, it will show when you speak.
Why it works:
Try this: Record yourself on your phone, then watch with a critical but kind eye. What’s working? What small tweaks can you make? Remember to learn from watching yourself rather than judge yourself. You should be finding things you did well and things you can improve on in this exercise.
Even if you’re not ready for a full audience, practicing in front of a friend, family member, coach, or supportive colleague has many benefits including:
Try this: Ask your listener to tell you what they remember most from your speech. This will show you if your key message is coming through clearly.
If possible, practice in the actual room where you’ll be speaking. If that’s not an option, find a similar space—one with the same setup, microphone, or stage. This way you can mimic the experience as much as possible.
Why this helps:
Try this: If you can’t access the venue, at least visualize it while rehearsing. Imagine the layout, the people in the seats, and where you’ll be standing.
There’s a difference between memorizing your speech word-for-word and internalizing your message.
What happens when you over-memorize?
Try this instead:
Remember: Your audience doesn’t have your script. If you say something a little differently than planned, they will never know! So relax, and speak from the heart!
Want to really build your confidence? Make your rehearsals a little harder than the actual event.
Try these pressure-testing techniques:
By pushing yourself in practice, you’ll feel more prepared and in control on speech day.
It sounds simple but wearing the clothes you plan to present in can make a big difference.
Why?
Try this: Do one full rehearsal in your speech outfit, including accessories and shoes. Confidence starts in the details!
You do not need to rehearse for weeks on end to deliver a great speech. Practice is all about quality over quantity. How you practice truly matters. Focus less on perfection and more on meaningful preparation—speak your words out loud, record yourself, practice in front of a trusted friend, and get comfortable in your space. Internalize your message so that it becomes natural, not memorized. Your voice is powerful, and your message matters.
When you practice with purpose, you will perform with power!
If you are ready to take your preparation to the next level, book a free discovery call and let’s get you speaking with clarity, confidence, and impact today!
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